Ask Olivia This Week's Questions: What is the best way to clarify an Asian's last & first names? (Confused in Webster Groves) Dear Confused: The best way to clarify an Asian's last & first names is to ask which is the given (first) name and which is the family (last) name. What is the Mid-Autumn Festival? (Nell in Ballwin) Dear Nell: The Mid-Autumn Festival, or Moon Festival is celebrated on the fifteenth day of eighth lunar month (August 15th on Western calendar) when the moon shines brightest. This festival is a legacy from the days of moon worship. The Moon Festival has an old legend about a beautiful lady who was dismayed by the misconduct of her husband that she ascended to the moon and only visits him once a year at the time of a full moon. Moon cakes, rich pastries traditionally filled with sweet red bean paste, are eaten during the Moon Festival. Another tradition is a parade of children carrying lanterns in various shapes of dragons, fish, and stars, made with shine-through paper.